Benue State-born music damsel, Imelda Ada Okwori, whose stage
name is Imelda J has got some aces up her sleeve and she is dealing
them out just as nice to the delight of her growing fans, who can’t seem
to get enough of her pop style.
Based
in Lagos, she has been in the industry for the past six years, making
good music but just as her good music has won for her many fans, so are
controversies which continue to trail her wherever she goes Recently,
our reporter caught up with her and it was a ding-dong session,
particularly over a rumour making the rounds about the diva and another
music star, Jaywon, and her relationship with the Governor of her State.
Excerpts: Let’s start with the rumour making the rounds that you are in a sizzling romance with Jaywon. Is it true?
It’s not true. I am not dating Jaywon.
It was reported you had a secret wedding with him recently. How about that?
Well,
that’s a very big lie. I am not married to anyone. No secret wedding. I
think it will be very rude of me to get married without the consent of
my family. That was not part of my upbringing, and even if I am to get
married, why would I do it in secret as if I am owing anybody. Please,
that is not true. Something went wrong somewhere.
How do you mean ‘something went wrong somewhere’?
Yes.
Something went wrong. The news came to me via a friend of Jaywon who
called me on the telephone. I was in the church for Ash Wednesday mass
at about 6 pm. He called me and when he said Jaywon just called him and
told him that he heard a news about me and him being married, I was
shocked. From that moment, I went sour and I could not even concentrate
again while the mass lasted. He then forwarded some blog sites to me.
After the mass, I summoned courage to open the blogs.
I read the
story and the picture they uploaded. It was extracted from my video.
However, so many questions started running through my mind. I know my
Facebook and Twitter accounts have been hacked. But this particular
picture was not hacked. And there was only one possibility left. I was
attacked by armed robbers at Mile 2 on my way from Festac a week before
this rumour. It is possible that my phone which was stolen during the
incident got into the wrong hands. In that phone, I have the memory card
that contains all my documents for the past five to six years. It has
really weighed me down. Thank God I am not the type that keep nude
pictures and all that, if not the story would have been more damaging
than what it is now.
Was the video that raunchy ?
The song
is a love song. In the video, we were very close and we played the role
of two people in true love, ready to give everything to each other. I
gave all my property to him and coincidentally, he did the same and it
was romance all the way for real. Maybe that question should go to my
director because I don’t know how he did the magic.
Away from that, how about the Chrysler car reported to have been bought for you by him as a birthday gift?
That
is very funny to me. I am sure the person who wrote the story went
online for a proper research about Imelda J. Aside having those pictures
in my lost cell phone, the news and the picture of my car is on major
blogs. The major gift I received on my birthday was from my aunt. I
bought my car shortly after my show in Abuja. This is very sad. How
people think a young lady can’t buy something by herself. Must every
success of a woman be attributed to a man? All I know is that God is
alive, watching us and our deeds.
He was also said to have bought you a wrist watch worth of $500.000?
Jaywon
did not buy anything for me, please. Why should he do so for me, when I
do not have anything to do with him, aside music. We are not even close
friends on a normal day. I don’t call him on phone. We have good and
normal working relationship just like with other artistes. Even if we
were to be dating, I will not even expect such a gift from him because I
think he still has a lot to put together as a young man.
How did you meet him in the first place?
I
have been a fan of Jaywon for long, so I decided to do a collaboration
with him. I was considering doing so with someone else but I decided to
settle for him because my spirit was positive on having a collaboration
with him and this should be done before every other artiste. I consulted
my manager and she agreed to work on it. We met someone who introduced
us to him. I must tell you it was strictly official. No strings
attached.
If truly there is no chemistry between the two of you, why would your spirit chose him instead of any other artiste?
I
feel connected to him musically each time I listen to the way he sings
with passion. Things of the spirit cannot be understood by humans. I
can’t explain that. With time I will understand why. But for now, I
can’t really explain.
In a press release from Jaywon’s management
published by NET online, he said he hasn’t met you before and you said
the picture was from a collabo you did together; don’t you think one of
you is lying?
Well, I did not read the press release. But
according to my manager, she said some bloggers wrote that Jaywon denied
he knows any Imelda. I lack words to qualify that. Maybe that was his
own way of reacting to a shocking news. In my case, I kept quite and
decided to reason so many things. Though it got to me like a hurricane.
Meanwhile, I think NET has some cases to answer as regards the press
release they did. My manager told me a whole lots of things. And those
were complete misinformation, blackmail, defamation of character and all
that. Just because you have the pen and you feel your pen is sharp does
not guarantee you the right to write anything you feel like without
proper investigation. I do not have any problem with Jaywon and the way
he reacted by denying he ever knew me. When you see him, ask him if he
has a twin brother that looks exactly like him and bears the same name.
Or better still, maybe he has a clone that tweeted that and not him.
What is so special about you that top dignitaries in the country want to associate with you?
As
you can see, this is just me. In my journey so far, I have realised
that some people are jobless. And all they do is to talk what they don’t
know. I am not denying the fact that I am close to some top
dignitaries. But the truth is, I am not dating any of them. People think
they know me but they don’t. I grew up in a political background. I can
equally say I am a politician and close to some politicians.
I
understand politics very well. I am a very friendly person. I have even
been approached by most of my mentors to contest for some strategic
positions because they know my capability of pulling weights. They
believe in me. But I declined all of that, because for now, that is not
my area of interest. I just want to be focused. I am not worried about
what people say because they don’t know me. Just because you see me
smiling to the bank does not mean it is courtesy of any political
connection. I also do business. But I don’t like to show off.
I am
the quite type when it comes to telling people things about myself
because I have issues of trust. I have been betrayed severally and lost
so much, even in my career. Besides, is it because I am a woman, if they
are accusing me of such, how about 2face, Blackface, Terry G who have
been to the government house severally. They are even closer to the
politicians than me. Are they also dating them? So many artistes from
Lagos have visited my State severally.
Acts like, Desmond Elliot,
Omotola, Uche Jombo, I Go Dye, Mr Ibu, J Martins and host of others have
been there times without number. Are they also dating those top
dignitaries. Just because I am a young lady, and I am single does not
mean I am ready to mingle at any time with anyone. I have a taste when
it comes to men. And I am very hardworking. So the jobless can keep
talking. To be frank with you, my State government supports and
encourages the growth of entertainment.
Why the news about you is always about dating one person or the other?
You
see, like I said, I am a very friendly person. I can’t change that
about me. Maybe it’s one of the reasons. I am yet to discover why. And
maybe because I am human or maybe they expect me to flaunt my boyfriend
or brag about having a relationship. And because they don’t see all of
that, they assume and conclude on my behalf as soon as they see me
getting close to any man.
There is even a rumour that you are dating Governor Suswam?
You
see, I have already answered that in your previous question. I don’t
like talking about this because I respect my State governor a lot and he
believes in my dream. I have been running away from talking to the
press concerning this matter. I wonder how this rumour is still
spreading. I have nothing to do with him. He is more like a father
figure to me, especially in politics. He does not even have any idea of
how much I admire and respect some of his leadership qualities. I hardly
see him and most of the time we meet, it is by coincidence. Please, I
will be grateful if the press can stop asking me henceforth
What happened between you and Yemisi Suswam when you met recently at an event?
Here you go again. What did you hear?
We learnt she ignored you at the event!
That was true. But I am not bothered
How did it happened and which event was that?
That
was during a performance few years ago. It was the celebration of my
State governor’s victory in the court. I wasn’t the only one who
performed there. What she did was obvious, that a lot of people noticed
it, even then I tried my best not to let it weighed me down, many kept
calling and condemning the act. I chose to move on and gave it a blank
ear because a clean conscience fears no accusation or anything. I don’t
want to talk much on this. I am surprised that people are still talking
about it as if it just happened. It is well oh. Abeg, I love my life oh.
What do you think made her not to respond to your greeting?
I
don’t like jumping into conclusions. So I do not know. I can’t say
anything concerning that again, please. If I say one thing now, someone
else will misunderstand me. Just forget that matter please.
Are you presently in any relationship and how is his reaction to all these romance tales of yours?
Imelda
J, from the day I made up my mind to do music professionally, I also
made up my mind to face the consequences. It is a sacrifice. The road is
not as easy as people think. Just like every other average man, you
don’t expect him to be happy about it. Even if he chooses to understand,
I know he feels hurt sometimes.
Musically, what are you up to?
I
am up to so many things. I am trying to stay focused no matter who is
trying to distract me .I will be dropping my new single soon. Both the
audio and the video. The title is ‘Everything I do’ featuring Jaywon. I
am also working on a follow-up singles shortly after I release the first
single. My album is ready. And we did the promotional album launch in
Abuja towards the end of last year. The final album will drop sometime
this year but no particular date is fixed yet. I have a lot at hand for
now. That reminds me. According to the press release from Jaywon’s
management, I was told my management released an official statement for a
publicity stunt. I want to state clearly here that I do not want to
join issues with anyone. But I demand a copy of the said ‘official press
release’ they said we gave to the press. I already have my plans
rolling for the release of my latest single. I don’t need a stunt to
promote this song.
Are they trying to say the story going on between Kennis music and Jaywon is a publicity stunt?
Today
they are no more together. Tomorrow, Jaywon writes Kennis to buy his
right. The next thing, they deny writing a withdrawal letter. Another
day, Kennis music releases a statement to ban Jaywon’s song from the
media.
The next thing, Jaywon says I am still with Kennis. So, tell me who is fooling who,
I
see this as a major distraction but I have promised myself not to lose
focus come what may . So expect so many good music and lovely videos
from me this year. I have done so many collaborations but because of
these enemies at work, I will not release any of the collabo any time
soon.
Any regret on having a collabowith Jaywon?
No regrets
at all. He is a very gentle guy. Well composed, homely, I must say. I
love the job we did together. I love everything about working with him.
The support, the passion, his time and everything was unexpected.
Though, I didn’t foresee all this happening at the end of the day. But I
believe it will all end in praise. No pain, no gain. This is my own
fair share.
When do we see you getting marry?
You know
marriage no be small pikin thing. I still be pikin oh. Just kidding.
When I see someone I can happily cope with for the rest of my life. Its a
spirit to soul thing. I am not in a haste. I can’t get married because
others are getting married. I should get married when the time is ripe
and God has the final
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